I love my apartment... LOVE IT. But, if you look out of my wall of living room windows... not so far off in the distance, you see a billboard for.... KARS 4 KIDS.
So, I live every day in fear that I will make eye contact with that billboard and automatically have this song stuck in my head for the next few weeks. Then, when it's finally gone... I catch the billboard with my eye again.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K8UV7SAhvG4
This song has haunted me for decades... do you have a commercial jingle you can't shake?
This post inspired by this tweet:
“I saw a tiktok that said some people DON'T have constant, nonstop inner dialogues, like, sometimes they just have quiet brains and no thoughts, and I.......can't tell if that's something that's fake. Like a thing they made up for the internet.”
https://twitter.com/sarahhollowell/status/1514729421042855943?s=21&t=fXLJ648SrF8bU7eK8jxBkA
So, do you have quiet brain, or a constant swirl? I cannot imagine having the former — admittedly, I can be a terrible listener because I literally can’t take in any new thoughts. I’ve simply packed too much in that’s already dancing around my brain.
I'm just making that term up, but here's how I'd define it...
A kid that does a good job (and perhaps prefers) the company of adults. For ex. your parents have a BBQ and you don't get sent to a friend's house, instead, you mingle and talk about your life with adults who — in hindsight — didn't really care about your dance recital, but were so impressed by how well you were able to communicate with people older than you.
I definitely was — I think it was a big part of being an only child (and being the youngest in my entire extended family). I was pretty used to keeping up with the adults in the room and my parents always treated me like a peer. I had friends my own age, of course, and would spend time with them a lot doing normal kid things, but I wasn't afraid of being the first one up at a sleepover, hanging out with my best friend's mom in the kitchen for hours over chocolate iced donuts.
I was reading an interview with Jaden Smith (lol) who says growing up as Will and Jada's kid, he was an adult's child. He said, "I am very happy that I spent my childhood with more adults than I did with kids my own age, because I was picking up more things from adults than I was from kids my own age." He also said he'd respond to his peers w/ things like, "Dude, like, oh my God. Can we talk about the political and economic state of the world, right now ... Can we talk about what’s going on in the environment? Can we talk about other things?”
I would like to say, this is an insufferable Adult's Child. I do not claim him in the club of an Adult's Child.
To get to my real question... if you WERE an AC, how did it shape you? Putting my thoughts about how it shaped me in response! :)