but honestly good for you! Just send this energy out here and block him

I feel like the guys who do this are the ones who like control & the feed off the vulnerability of women. Men who are more mature I find just want a clean break and they don't want the added drama in their lives. If they are reaching out to you - don't engage! You'll only be fueling their ego. 

Do not engage! I find that the cleanest way for a break is to sever all ties, sadly. And avoid in the future. I've run into plenty of exes in person at parties, and I find ignoring is the best way to not open old wounds. Just look at each other across the room and acknowledge. But don't engage! 

No, seriously the best way to get your ex to talk to you again if you want them to is to move on to a different person and not just move on to a different person but really like the new person that you’re talking to because then your ex receives a signal which makes them come back I want to we can do whatever it is that you have going on. It’s like an evil super power.

“'At your highest moment, be careful, that's when the devil comes for you.‘ - Will Smith” - Denzel Washington 

It's uncanny, isn't it?? And if you're ever the Ex, and doing the Reaching Out, it should be a signal to you that the person on the other end of the line has moved on, which is why the f*cked up universe has called on you to reach out to them. 

Good for you for not engaging! Very impressed

Yesssssss! Good for you! Focus on yourself and do you, honeyyyy

I'm not sure if its a coincidence or if the opps are following my every move.. And by opps I mean my ex because I am the happiest that I have been in a really long time, and here his a** is floating around in my message requests. I'll be honest, a part of me did want to respond to see what he had to say but I have grown so much and I no longer feel the need to hear it. This is Aaron 2.0 and I know that all this is going to cause is trouble and confusion.. and I no longer need that in my life. I have moved on with my life and as Nene Leakes would say, "THE DOOR IS CLOSED." 

Why do exes feel the need to contact you when you've finally moved on?