I am a serial monogamist and that’s not working

When you’re ‘dating’ the whole point is to not put all your eggs in one basket. But for me, I can speak to multiple suitors for the teeniest tiniest time and then I’m off with my favorite basket. Time and time again I am shown why I should stop doing this. By the time I’m done figuring why my basket is busted all my eggs are all over the place and I have nowhere to put them! You get the point, instead of dating multiple guys I get caught up with one guy and by the time I figure out he’s trash I lost my other potential guys. And by that time my other guys are either on to new tings or offended that I cut them off. I need to learn how to date correctly.