I just go to the gas station and let men who would never have a chance compliment me

Cappuccino time! A little espresso 'n steamed milk in a small, cutesy cup from a coffee shop can go a long way. 

I actually prefer to put on a dress vs. hard pants — makes me feel more dressed up and nice. 

Nothing wrong with feeling off every once in awhile. That’s your body telling you not to force it. Typically, my answer is ice cream. It won’t make you feel prettier, but it will make you feel happier. 

Firm believer in a spray tan or self-tan is the key to confidence feeling better! I would be lost without my spray tan membership. 

Do something a little out of the ordinary for you. Like wearing matching PJs or sweats instead of throwing on whatever big tshirt and bottoms I see near me. Or do something cute with food, make an acai bowl and post on your story so it *feels* like your life is together. Even posting a cute pic of your pet is something good bc you know you’ll get tons of nice comments. 

We all have them. Usually, it involves me deciding early on in the day that I'm going to choose violence and make myself miserable in every way. That means 1) Wearing clothes that make me look frumpy and then complaining I look horrible. 2) Not washing my hair and allowing it to sit on the top of my head in a messy bun looking like a rat's nest. 3) Not putting an ounce of makeup on and probably doing something to irritate my skin more just bc I can. 4) Not eating the way I usually eat, which just throws me off more. 5) Being grouchy in general. 

What do you do to turn these days around? I'm having one today and can use the advice... I just showered, curled my hair, did my makeup and put hard pants (jeans) on to feel more Done Up. I walked by the mirror though and was like CLOWN. 

What do you do on days you feel... not cute

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