No because here’s the thing I give everyone an equal opportunity. It’s not my fault one sibling is better at it than another. Tell your sister to step up! 

I'm the middle of three and I'm way closer with my brother than I am my sister. We're all about two years apart, so I went to high school with both my sister and my brother (my sister was a junior when I was a freshman; I was a junior when my brother was a freshman).

Point is, we had equal amount of time together growing up and had similar interests (read: sports) but I just clicked with my brother more. We talk all the time now as adults; I rarely talk to my sister.

Not because of a falling out, just because we never really clicked. And it's something that really weighs on me. I want a closer relationship but at the end of the day, I just don't think we'll have one. We love each other and all that, it's just, we don't mesh, I don't know how else to describe it. She's a lone wolf and I love a pack.

My guilt about this keeps me up at night, even though I don't think either of us have done anything wrong. 

Do you feel bad having a favorite sibling?

Allison Piwowarski