I can’t give you that argument because I’m in the same boat as you — I enjoy it but it’s not can’t miss tv for me either. 

I will agree, the fandom is so intense. And toxic. Moreso than other cities I think? 

I’m with you in the fact that I am an in and out kinda viewer. I think with NJ, they have had good seasons but I think what makes me not watch with obsession is that all of the women are hypocritical and don’t realize it. Also, they never really have new things going on, it seems like the same arguments over and over again 🙄

Rhonj is my least favorite franchise. I hate when one cast member runs the show. Tre is holding the rest of the cast hostage and has been for years. The fact that she said “I wouldn’t get sexually harassed because I’m a strong woman” and we all just casually let that slide is…INSANE 

I am an in-and-out viewer of RHONJ. I enjoy it, love the chaos, and appreciate the dynamics....but it's just never been "Can't Miss TV" for me. (I realized that, *I* am the one in the wrong for this, as everyone else in the world seemed to be obsessed). 

That being said, RHONJ fans scare me. More than any other franchise, RHONJ has true STANS. Depending on which fan account I look at, Teresa is either Jesus or Voldemort, Marge is either doing the Lord's work or ruining lives for sport,  and Gia is off limits or Enemy Number 1. Truly, it's remarkable to see the different narrative play out online, and I'm low-key here for the social media drama more than the actual show itself. 

So, Tre Huggers and Tre Haters, give me your best "You should be on my side because..." argument below.

RHONJ fans scare the sh*t out of me

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