Help, I Am Traditional

I am vey untraditional when it comes to a lot in life, I am someone who considers myself very open-minded. But when it comes to weddings, I find myself so... Traditional. Meaning, if I were to get married and some girl showed up in white, I'd be upset. I think your "first look" should be when you see each other at the aisle. I think men should be in black tuxes, not navy with brown shoes which everyone seems to be doing. I am finding myself feeling more opinionated on this than I ever thought I would be. And I want to know if I'm alone in this, or if you have any weddings do/don'ts that bother you!