There are few red flags brighter and more obvious than bringing a literal blow-up sex doll to a blind date. And yet, this is exactly what Cody Menk of San Diego decided to bring for his Bachelorette entrance. And, looking through Cody's social media, the doll is really just the tip of an iceberg worth of red flags.

Before our investigation into Cody's Instagram, let's talk about the doll. Think about it. He purposely decided that he wanted to exit the limo on The Bachelorette with a blow-up doll, meaning he not only wanted the blow-up doll to be the first impression he made on Katie Thurston, he wanted it to be his first impression on the entire world. Look, I get it, it's a callback to Katie's entrance on The Bachelor, but a blow-up doll and a vibrator are very much not the same thing, and him thinking it does shows a clear misunderstanding of what being sex-positive really means.

Lest you think this might just be a one-off cringe factor that doesn't mean he's not the one for Katie, let me introduce you to his Instagram page, which is littered with red flags from various spon-con to a relatively recent serious relationship. At the end of the day, it all adds up to Cody not being there for the right reasons.